Love Making | LovemakingLearn how making Divine Love can heal an existing relationship or create a solid foundation in a new relationshipBefore you read any further I want to clarify that I do not promote love making in any relationship outside the bounds of marriage. Having been married over 20 years I still believe that that this is the best recipe for every human being. As a matter of fact, with a little bit of research, you could see for yourself that sex outside of marriage does indeed more harm than good. Having said that, my purpose for addressing this subject as part of the "health related fitness" topic of this site is to address ALL aspects of one's health. At some point, couples will experience some form of challenge in the bedroom, and I want to provide an avenue for this subject to be addressed so thier sexual health can be addressed.
5 Ingredients For Great Christian Married Sex1. Naked and Not Ashamed Genesis 2:25 gives the building blocks to a solid foundation of a healthy marriage and sexuality: Intimacy. Dictionary.com defines shame as "the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper, and ridiculous." Adam and Eve had just met, and yet they felt "naked and not ashamed." There was an emotional, physical, and spiritual safety. Great love making is a by product of such intimacy between two people. 2. Fly Solo with your Spouse The sweetest love making occurs by taking the time to nurture the relationship with one person over time. Some say staying married to the same person is boring. Quite the contrary! It becomes an adventure to walk the twists and turns with your mate on this journey called life. We get to rediscover our spouse a new over time with the added benefit of knowing them from the past. 3. Have it! In the busyness of life, it is amazing how easy love making is neglected in married couples. This is not specific to any particular phase of a marraige: newlywed, small children, adolescent children and empty nest. Somehow we think great sex comes when everything has to be perfect: the lighting, the place, the music. These are the icing, but sometimes you just have the cake, which can be equally satisfying. 4. Pleasurable techniques Each spouse desires to satisfy their spouse sexually, yet may feel inadequate because they may lack the practical know-how. As a counselor, I usually suggest married spouses begin with just stimulating the erogenous zones of the body � the genitals and breasts, and then begin communicating what is pleasurable. Do some research on fulfilling lovemaking techniques and utilze them. 5. Communication Communication is simply talking about everything that makes sex better. Ambience, places, technique, and frequency are good ideas to begin to discuss with your spouse. Your spouse cannot please you sexually if he/she is unaware of your preferences. You and your spouse can become the best sex coaches for your marriage if you are willing to communicate your sexual needs and desires. What about you? Are you experiencing great sex as a Christian married couple? Maybe the key is to schedule time for sex. Or maybe you need to get some valuable resources to educate yourself on better techniques to satisfy you spouse. Are you rediscovering your spouse? Remember, God desires love making for married couples to not be good, but great! ------ Looking for more practical information for a fun, and fulfilling sex life? I invite you to check out http://www.greatchristiansex.com/ for resources that are useful without being offensive. I give this my highest recommendation...In the area of successful relationships and sexual intimacy I know of no one else that I trust my visitors to more than Michael Webb. Over the last decade he has become one of the world's most sought after relationship experts and has logged over 500 appearance on TV and radio shows across the globe including Oprah, BBC, NBC News. He's been featured in practically every major magazine and newspaper in the U.SHis high profile and credibility as an author and relationship expert puts him in a league of his own. He tackles all aspects of relationships from dating, courtship, marriage and lovemaking. Michael Webb is a devout Christian so even his more "adult" topic ebooks are tastefully written that they are suitable for just about any audience. Three of his ebooks have recently been translated into Spanish with several others in the pipeline. I suggest you check out Michael Webb's collection...
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